Ask yourself the following questions.
Who do I really want to be?
Where do I want to be?
How can I have the life I really want?
Once you begin imagining the answers to these questions, your subconscious mind begins working to deliver on the answers to those questions. Your subconscious mind is a goal-seeking part of you that is programmable, through hypnosis.
You have two minds, your conscious mind (10% of your brain power) and your subconscious mind (90% of your brain power). You may consciously know you need to make changes in your life, but the power to change the old habits and beliefs occur at the deepest and most powerful part of your mind, which is your subconscious mind.
You need a way to speak with your subconscious mind. Hypnosis provides that direct communication with that part of your mind.